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You're pretentious and self-righteous - so much so that you'll probably try to defend yourself and reason with yourself immediately (silently or not.)

You won't dwell on this message or anything, you'll think it's totally wrong. It won't affect the way you think or the way that you act, but you'll look back on it in several years and realize how wrong you were to let this insight pass you by.





What can I do to change?




Oh, and, please differintiate the insight from the character bashing. I didn't sense any sincere advice. Only an observation.




The insight was the character bashing. There was no advice because I didn't think you would care to respond.

That's a great question, though.
Appreciate, admire, idolize others if you have to.
Know that you can learn something from absolutely anyone, no matter how trivial.
Whatever you do, don't look down on others until you know them better than they know themselves: they're content with themselves, so one can only expect that you would be too.




Is their any reason you can't say this without being anonymous?


I do, in fact, appreciate your advice.




My anonymity protects me from your judgement.

It's uplifting to me that you don't just cast aside my advice.




You musnt know me very well, if you expected any less. Approaching someone in a respectful way always makes it easier to respond.

I understand your desire to shield yourself from my judgement, but let me ask you, what protects me from yours? Its difficult to respond well to someone you find cowardly.




It was never my intent to approach or confront you.

It's best for me to stay anonymous, considering that if you knew who I was - no matter who - you would deny my credibility by reasoning with yourself and you would begin to see the negatives in me. The relationship between us would diminish and conversations would become awkward.

Nothing protects you from my judgement. I judged you long before I wrote this. As for my written judgement, I don't see any reasons for you to know my identity.




We have a relationship? We're friends? I don't feel comfortable talking with you any longer. This is unfair, and you wouldn't appreciate it either.

Your writing style is so familiar.




It's time to stop.
Find out who this is




Its time to face me. Or leave these accusations, these opinions, and these judgements inside of your head. I don't need someone - who can't even face me - criticising me.




The writing style. Its gives it away. That's why you want to stop. Goodbye.




I implore you, Lindsay - don't let my weaknesses be your reason to not listen my insight.

You've begun to reason with yourself.
I'm sorry I can't face you. It's unfortunate for the both of us that I know it would make more trouble than it could ever have fixed if I did so. You must understand.

I apologize, but I can't let you know who I am. I have to stop writing to you now.

Best of wishes.




Lindsay? You just called me Lindsay?




Why the fuck did you just call me Lindsay? Who the fuck is this?



Please stop fucking with my fragile head.




;)
Find out who this is




That was a mistake, you calling me Lindsay, and I know it. I only know one Lindsay who spells her name that way. Only one that matters, anyway. Man the hell up, for once, instead of acting as if you're a small boy.




Yes, it was a mistake. I was looking at a picture of a friend named Lindsay while I was typing to you. Do not write as though you know me. "for once"

You're no divine being for figuring out that your name isn't Lindsay.

I told you that I want to stop writing now.