i find it disgusting how people tear one another to shreds

the first the we do when we see someone is judge. what is so wrong with admiration and love? when did it become a contest of who was better? females--they are infamous for all of this bullshit. i guess i'm just up to my knickers in this shit, and i'm tired of it. generally i don't allow it to be known... but i'm hurting. hurting others hurts me. i'm tired.